Lama x jumpa...tak tau nak mula dari mana...life story about a student? Naaa...booooring.... tapi yang tak boringnya sbb ada classmates yang best2...mostly adik2 la...tp seronok..at least..leh feeling2 remaja sama..ye dak??
Nak citer pasal Icha, x dapat nak update progress sbb appointment on 24.10 terpaksa cancel sbb hubby sibuk ngan kes tembak pegawai bank oleh pak guard tu...so minggu depan baru dpt tau apa keputusan. As mentioned by Dr..kalau bengkak kidney Icha masih sama or x kurang, they will think of another plan instead of Icha asik makan antibiotik like now. I think I got the message as Dr. did mention to operate and remove the kidney when Icha is 1 years old and above.
After all, I'm OK with that, as long as my baby will safe. Luckily I'm on my study leave so that I can take care of her later. Alhamdulillah. Progress Icha, ada 8 batang gigi..debab..notty..manja...sangat manja ngan abah...still x bjalan lagi..but it's OK.
Actually quite a number of mommies and ada daddy yang contact me to get more info about this..I mean bengkak kidney. And sometimes, aku rasa sedih bagi yang lagi hebat dugaan dari aku...cam one of this mother, Sheila, Dr. suggest to abort her baby sbb both kidney tak function. Sbb kalau dia keep her baby pun, her baby might not survive. I dont know, but I feel so sad. If I were in her shoes, I dont know what should I do. But I always believe, that Allah swt. knows best.
For Sheila, dont be sad dear. Just think for a second. Maybe if ur baby were born, he/she will face a lot of difficulties due to her condition. Maybe you will be sad, and not strong to hold on. So it's best to let her go...for a good reason. I'm sure your family will understand. It's not an easy decision dear, but one day, you will be thankful to Allah for whatever decision that you've made. In Shaa Allah, you'll see your prince/princess one day in Jannah. I feel so sad to continue to type...really...easy for me to say but it will not be easy for you to do it. Be strong ya sister.
Ada yang kes sama macam Icha, dpt tau kidney bengkak since dlm perut like me. Have gone for 2 operations but failed. Now anak dia dah 7 tahun, still bengkak lagi kidneynya...sian kan. I hope Icha x jadi macam tu. I hope apapun, operation ke apa ke...akan berjaya.
Today, anak my friend Ain, baby Amzar akan go through 2nd time operation for his kidney. I hope everything will be OK and Ain, bertabah la sayang. Ain aku kenal from my blog, we started to share our story and became fren. Same goes to Shida. Everytime Icha demam ke apa, I will contact her to share the symptom, takut2 demam sbb urine infection or something. Shida aku kenal kat hospital, time both our babies kena warded sama2...lucky to have them both as my fren so that I can share my problem about our babies.
To all mommies and daddies out there, share your problem with those who faced the same with urs..to ease ur burden, to relieve your worrisome. Email me at cmsmazni@gmail.com so that we can share further.
May Allah swt. bless us and our kids.
